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Idea Tips and Do It Tips for School Improvement
BIT: The
development of the Social/Emotional Learning (SEL) movement is based on the
fact that most educators now realize how important the psychological aspects of
the learning environment can be for individual student progress as well as
group cohesiveness. SEL needs to become an expected curriculum feature and not
a trendy, but momentary focus which is forgotten as the reform effort moves
forward. Here are some commonly used SEL techniques which have the potential to
become self-perpetuating due to their usefulness for teachers and the interest
they invoke from students.
DIT: Implement regular class meetings which allow
students and their teachers to meet face-to-face to discuss challenges and
promote responsibility and thoughtfulness in students. Meetings can be
developmentally appropriate for children as young as 3 or 4 if they are kept
short and students have an active part. Often class meetings at the youngest
ages involve students demonstrating or practicing certain social skills
(greeting, apologies, requests, etc.). As children grow, they take a more
active part in running meetings. Older students select meeting topics and help
establish meeting routines. Once students reach upper elementary school, they
can begin to coordinate meetings independently. Middle and high school students
sometimes even formalize their meetings, using Roberts Rules of Order to guide
the process.
DIT: Use Conflict Resolution to Teach Problem-Solving
Skills. Having a protocol that students can use to guide discussions about
interpersonal conflict helps students handle disagreements in positive ways.
Conflict is an inevitable part of human interaction. Teachers often worry that
time spent handling interpersonal conflict will rob the students of time on
task. The goal is frequently to stop conflict situations as quickly as possible
and get back to the real business at hand. Learning a conflict resolution
strategy brings interpersonal conflict into the realm of “intentional
curriculum” and legitimizes the time we spend learning these skills. When
developing problem-solving techniques is seen as a vital aspect of healthy
progress, our interpersonal challenges cease to be distractions and take on the
color of opportunities for meaningful learning.
DIT: Use Emotional Sandwiching. Students who see
their classroom as a refuge come to school with light steps, anticipating their
interactions with classmates and teachers. We can help promote this type of
warmth by starting and ending every school day with a personal connection. This
doesn’t have to be an elaborate or time-consuming ritual. It can be as simple
as providing a warm greeting to welcome each person as they arrive in the
morning, and then closing with a short reflective circle before dismissal. Some
classrooms like to appoint a student as the official greeter. Students enjoy
suggesting topics for the closing group, and this can be a great time to focus
attention on enriching events the class is planning for the near future. The
main idea of this exercise is to help students to be mindful of the importance
of their work, and the implications it has for all of their lives.
DIT: Build Emotional Capital in ourselves. Perhaps
the most important thing a teacher can do to promote healthy SEL development is
to prepare him or herself. When we are emotionally balanced and feeling
appreciated and valued, we are better able to be present for our students and
support their growth. Stress relief techniques and positive collegial
relationships help us to feel calm and confident. We build emotional capital
for ourselves by caring for our own needs.
DIT: Build Emotional Capital in our kids through our
interactions with them. Each time we have the opportunity to communicate with a
child, we can use that interaction to support the child. Supportive messages
(such as noting positive behaviors and making encouraging suggestions)
communicate that students are on the right track and lead to greater student
confidence. These types of interactions help students to trust their teachers,
bringing us closer together. When conflicts arise, the strength of this
relationship will often determine the level at which students will engage in
honest dialog. If we can think of our interactions as a banking system, we want
to be sure we are making plenty of deposits (emotionally supportive
communications) in relation to the number of withdrawals (requests for
self-control and cooperation) we require. Students whose accounts have been
overdrawn by life may need many deposits before a single withdrawal can be
expected.
DIT: A wealth of
classroom-tested ideas exist which teachers all over the country could include
in their work if they were aware of the ease and importance of teaching these
concepts. If teachers perceive that these ideas are growing because they work
to make classrooms function more smoothly and meet the needs of students more
thoroughly, they will adopt SEL friendly practices.
Check out these great ideas from
Mary
Kate Land,
Five Simple Techniques to
Incorporate Social and Emotional Learning, 5/3/11